Here is the second of my two talks that I gave at the Seattle chapter of the Ethical Culture Society, this one is from November 4, 2004. (See yesterday's post for the first ...)
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What do you believe?
David Workman
People can be very fervent in their beliefs.
I’m talking about the good old fashioned argument of science versus religion. By religion, I mean the organizations whose purpose it is to evangelize a monotheistic God.
What do you believe in? Is there a god? Is there a controlling “force” in the universe? Is our existence and our future pre-determined for us?
Our beliefs are based on our own experiences, what our parents and teachers teach us, what we read, whomever we decide is telling us the truth. And what about our sometimes irrational interpretations of all of the above?
We often choose mentors, consciously or unconsciously, whom we look up to and whose opinion we respect – and they have a great impact on what we believe in. Sometimes the respect for another person’s opinion is based on a logical presentation of cold hard facts, sometimes on fear, sometimes on the charisma of the presenter.
As a parent, I am continually afraid of someone “filling my kids head with a bunch of crap”, if you’ll pardon the popular expression. Every parent feels this way – but every parent’s idea of “crap” is different. For many parents, religious opinions are just the tip of the iceberg; you don’t dare talk to their kids about politics, off-color humor, sex education, the right to bear arms, or if the Cubs will win the World Series next year.
Ultimately, we need to guide our children in the beliefs, ideals, and ethics we think are important, but let them choose their own path. Oftentimes, the harder you force a particular point of view, t...
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